I love this old home. It has fallen into disrepair so the black and white is kinder to it. I love the angles, which to me represents a time when things were easier, straightforward. We knew who we were, what we wanted. Things were clear and in line.
The foundation, the lines, the angular pieces are still there, but look at the growth around it. The trees and foliage soften it, and together it makes a lovely picture.
Here I am with Fiat, the adorable little fish on the cover of Lisa Hendey’s book, The Grace of Yes. Today, folks all over the internet are posting pictures of themselves, tagging them #graceofyes, and being witnesses to saying YES to God’s will in their lives.
Here are mine:
yes to my darling husband — for our love, and all the yeses that spring from his support
yes to my kids — they changed my life in a beautiful way
yes to my career in education — I’m not going to lie, it is the biggest pain in my neck ever, and a magnificent return on the power of this yes
yes to my involvement in the new evangelization, first through Rosary Army and then SQPN, and all the subsequent opportunities to write and share, teach … and learn about our Lord, Jesus Christ.
To think that one fiat given 2000 years ago would have grown into all the yeses expressed today, and how those yeses continue to convert into more and more.
You can say YES in a number of ways. Here are some suggestions at Ave Maria Press’ Grace of Yes Day:
This afternoon I went on an adventure in my hometown. I have a dear friend visiting, and she wanted to do a little sight-seeing, so off we went.
It is so delightful to go out in the community and see the same old sights with a new eye to detail. It was a gift to my friend to explore, but it was also a gift to me, to see with fresh eyes the beauty that is in my little town.
This fountain sits at a traffic circle. I drive around it every week, but today I saw the joy captured in a childhood scene. Children playing on the rocks probably ended their afternoon with a game of King of the Hill. The little boy at the top of the fountain earned his achievement for the day.
Or it could be the kind of book you start reading a little before dinner and before you know it the doorbell is ringing because you got so caught up in it that your husband gave up on promises of pot roast and ordered pizza.
It could be thatkind of book.
It is that kind of book.
I’ve enjoyed Hendey’s books in the past — they are practical and offer all kinds of wonderful activities and reflections for the Catholic life, but this one, The Grace of Yes, is something more. We’re invited behind the scenes and into an intimate conversation with the author. She doesn’t pop us over the head and tell us how and when to Yes to God. Instead, she shares her journey. It’s like being invited into her living room for some coffee, and then you don’t want to go.
I heartily recommend this book for those of you who have trouble saying Yes, not because you don’t want to, but because you’re unsure of yourself. And for those of you who don’t know how to say No, there’s something in there for you, too.
Get a copy for yourself, and a copy for a friend. Then, get together and discuss it.